06 June 2009

Questions every friend should know the anwers to

what's my name, first and last?
when was i born, month and day?
what is my natural hair color?
natural eye color?
what is my biggest fear?
what cannot be replaced in my life?
where am i going to college?
what am i majoring in?
what do i plan to do after?
how do i act in new situations?
what things do i do for fun?
what do i want the most right now?
what do i dislike?
can you answer all of these?
any?
some?
what does this say about our basic relationship?

friendships are not based on the questions right here but without knowing many of these answers can we really have a friendship?
would you know how best to communicate with me?
would we be able to have deeper conversations, and delve deeper?
or will you leave it at the surface?

its not about these questions in particular, but about the time that you are willing to put forth in our relationship...i am not a jumping bean, i cannot pick up where we leave off every time i see you. i will no longer live constantly disconnected.
is it really that hard to just leave me a little sign you are there every once in awhile?

if you do not want to take the time to get to know me this way than can you really say that we have a friendship? i am not afraid that you will say you don't have enough time to really make up for it, or that i am not worth the effort...i don't really need people like you, nor do i need "fake" friends to be happy...that would make me very unhappy


so here we part.

2 comments:

  1. no....i think most of those questions listed were trivial and well, basically unessential to a friendship. a person's most prized possession tells more about them than theyre natural hair color or where theyre going to college. and just how someone acts tells you about them...they can say one thing and act a different way so asking questions, for me, is becoming pointless because no one is even honest.

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  2. i agree that people aren't honest but these are things that say you pay attention to someone and like i said its not about the questions in particular but about the amount of time you are willing to put into the relationship

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